(because if I post a link on Frum Satire, I have to wait for Hesh to moderate it for it to show up)
Question & Answer With Miriam Woelke - Retaining One's Essential Character
Check out the comments, particularly by William Kolbrener.
Link #2: Scroll down to 10 Elul 5764
Fun with Pirkei Avot
name I want to remember: ben ish chai. not to be confused with chazon ish.
If anyone wants to discuss cultivating tzniut in today's youth and daily life, I'd be glad to.